One of the most important things to remember about breastfeeding is that what happened before does not have to happen again.
- Did you have a "bad" day yesterday - today is a new day - call for help!
- Did you formula feed your previous child(ren), and now you've learned more and want to try breastfeeding again? Go for it!
Each relationship is new and unique, will have it's own challenges, and huge joys. Here are five tips for mamas who are new to breastfeeding. They are a starting point to the relationship that will be, pardon the pun, "fluid" as you and your baby learn and grow.
5 things I wish I had known about breastfeeding:
“Just because pain is common does not make it normal” – get help early and often if you have any breastfeeding challenges. During non-working hours you can hit the Internet for helpful videos. However, nothing can replace the face time with a knowledgeable, supportive soul – whether it’s peer help from a support group leader, or professional help from an IBCLC – plug in somewhere and find the person that is the right fit for your challenges.
Go to a support group meeting – as many as you need until you feel like most of
your questions are answered. It is a
learning process; even eight years into this, our last nursling and I are
facing situations I had never experienced before. It’s great to be plugged into a network of
people who have the answers.
Take a breastfeeding class – some consultants say before baby arrives so that
you have some familiarity with the topic, others say go after your baby arrives
so you have a frame of reference: either way, take the approach you think will
work for you.
Talk to the people who breastfed for over 12 months – they are the ones who
went through the kinds of ups and downs you are going to face, whether it’s
growth spurts, going back to work, pumping, developmental stages, cluster
feeding…they have stories to encourage you if this is a choice you are sticking
with through thick and thin.
Take the time to get a professional fitting for a nursing bra. The rule of thumb seems to be to buy one size
larger than your pre-pregnancy size. Go
to a boutique store or a quality department store – even if you don’t purchase
from them, you will leave there with a lot more information. We found that the higher price of a
well-made, properly fit undergarment was well worth it. The bras were prettier, more comfortable,
offered better support and still had the functionality you would expect from a
nursing bra – they opened and the closure held up despite consistent and
3 things that I am glad that I knew:
That it was our choice, no matter how hard it was at the
beginning. Because I am determined to
succeed when I make up my mind, I was able to nurse through tears caused by
excruciating pain when I nursed on the left side for the first 6-8 weeks
postpartum with our first two children.
The incredible benefits of breastfeeding that are affirmed with each new study
of breastfed children. Knowing the
benefits and the long-term picture of the health boost we wanted to give our
children helped us stick to our decision despite the tears and the pain.
The pure joy of looking at our child and knowing that all the growth, all the development,
all the great checkups were 100% breastmilk!
What tips or tricks do you have to share with mamas that are new to breastfeeding?
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